Whenever someone starts talking about Time Management, more often than not they will quote that, “Everyone from Bill Gates, Elon Musk and Jeff Bezos to the homeless sick old man sleeping in the platform has got the same amount of time in a day”. But is that really so? If we all have the same amount of time in a day how does Elon Musk can afford to aspire to go live in Mars in the next 5 years, when I couldn’t even fathom getting to buy myself a decent home in a posh neighbourhood in any given city in the same time period. Why is there a glass ceiling, an untold threshold to what each one of could achieve in a given day?
My first argument is that even though each one of us has got the same amount of time before the clock resets, we all don’t get to have equal access to all that time. A mother of a newborn who also has got a full time job as a software engineer, doesn’t really have the same amount of time as her unmarried colleague who doesn’t have the responsibility of taking care of and rising a newborn, who lives in a studio apartment, who can afford to wear the same jeans for a month and wake up everyday, brush their teeth and get to work. There are millions of cases like this where one has got some duties and reasons to do extra work which in a sense doesn’t propel us in the direction that we desire to progress in. No matter how efficient you are in doing that job, still you got to spend at least one second on that job more than someone who doesn’t have to do it at all in the first place. These responsibilities are not universal so we all don’t have the same amount of time in a day.
But still it’s not that I have got to spend a few hours a day towards my unavoidable responsibilities is creating this gargantuan difference in my potential from attempting to live in Mars to scraping the bottom of the wallet to buy a home. There is one more myth that we can’t buy time, not even borrow or lend it. This is said in a sense that no amount of money can make us time travel back like in a sci-fi movie and go to a earlier instance in time. There is no disputing this claim. But when we wish that if we had had more time or if we want to relive the past so that we could have some things differently, are we really wishing for the time to be back or do we want a different outcome for that spent time? When I wish that, if only I could go back to the time before my board exams, I would put my head down and study well so that I would get better marks than what I got now and get into that top rated college. When it is possible to buy your way into the same top college through capitation and management quota seats without having to travel back in time and correcting the wrongs, is that not buying back time with your money? When you don’t have to spend one more year preparing for that entrance exam and buy yourself a seat in that same college right now with your mediocre marks, is that not one year earned?
When you don’t have to wait in the line to get something just because you are the son/daughter of a person of power, whose power was bestowed on them by virtue of the governmental position they are holding or due to their social status attained by being part of the dominant group in the societal hierarchy. Does this not constitute adding more time to our day than others? All forms of social privilege we are enjoying are in a way adding more time to our day which is being taken away from others who are oppressed by the systemic social mechanisms.
Even if we manage to get the same amount of time as everyone else, still the output of that time is not going to be the same. There may be some inherent limitations to how much work we can get done through no mistake of ours or of others. You could solve only so many math problems in a minute even with extensive practice and training and may be that could be less than a prodigy who out performs us without breaking a sweat. But most often this is not the reason for the difference. The time of a black person and a white person are not the same, the time of the privileged and unprivileged are not that same, the time of people of different countries are not the same, of different faiths are not that same, of people coming from different neighbourhoods are not the same, of people speaking different languages are not the same, the time of people of different socio-economic groups are not the same. Indeed some people get to have an head start due to a multitude of factors and some get disadvantaged due to a number of reasons. This may be unfair, but is unavoidable.
Though always a different leverage is applied to our time and some get head starts, we should notice that our finish lines need not be the same always. I need not have to go to the Mars, or even buy a house within the next year. What the socially set standard of success and happiness is and what really brings us joy and what we really want to do in life could be polar opposites. Our times are not the same, but we are all given the same opportunity to choose to run or not to run the same race as everyone else, where the odds are not uniformly stacked. But when we are determined to run this race, when it is our own choice, do these differences in time really going to affect us?